What ever happened to.......

Admin wrote:I guess we're not doing too bad. A friend started a forum the same time I did. They have only 40 members and177 topics but only about 3,200 posts. At least people here aren't being hateful like over at her place. She's having some real problems.

My curious button got pushed. Whozat?

She was sdakotasky on DH. She hung out in General Discussion.

Ah yeah, okay. Thanks for the info.

She had blocked me on DH.

Really? That's odd. I can't imagine why. She's always been very nice to me.

She'd never talked to me. But one of her friends started sniffing around my door. When I found out what they were all about, I told them no way, and they blocked me. That's the only reason I can think of why she blocked me. I'd never said word one to her.

Sorry I don't understand what you mean.

Think he's talking about DH click mentality... So and so got their feelings hurt so not only do they block but everyone they are friends with blocks them also

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Kersey wrote:Think he's talking about DH click mentality... So and so got their feelings hurt so not only do they block but everyone they are friends with blocks them also

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'zactly!

He'll if everyone was like that I woulda been blocked by everyone.

I had a fewof blockers on DH.. actually, near the end I made Peace with a couple of them..

Admin wrote:No it just seems like it because it's only the same dozen people posting. Out of 65 members that's a small percentage. I'm doing my best to provide some variety to choose from and not many others are creating threads. I feel like I'm failing miserably.

You're not failing sweetie. Give it time,summer is coming up, people are outdoors more. They will flock in when they are done with RL for a while.

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It appears that cup lives on at another forum. I think she's about to be banned tho. lol

Suprise surprise not

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Ikr

I haven't seen Cup on the other site in a couple of days... I'll have to check & see if she's still there

Is she Ambrosia?

Wondering where everyone went after dh???

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A lot of people joined FB groups. Some are on other forums.

I have some of them on my group. And I deleted or banned all of the trouble makers. Cup is gone. But she is on several other groups.  No more drama on my group.

I do not block people because of my friends so if I had you blocked it was because of something you posted in one of my threads.

My group isn't doing too badly because I have some people who only post in music and some who only post in the 60's group.

Games is by far the most popular.

My site isn't for everyone because ProBoards who owns all of the groups on there allows anyone over 13 to post. Therefore it has to kept clean with no foul language.

You do have a few members I wish were on mine and I have some nice people you should have here. But people go where they want and we can't change that.

I think you are doing fine with this one. People not posting is something you can't control. A lot of people like drama so they pick more controversial sites. Let them deal with Cup. I had enough.

I actually didn't know about this site until a friend told me about it. I had mine posted all over DH.

A lot of people went to Mingle2 but I haven't heard anything good about it.

I tried Mingle2 & dejrted it weeks ago.. I frankly hated it

One nice thing about being admin on a site is that you don't have to block anyone or delete them. You can delete a single post.

I've only had to delete one post because of nudity and a couple threads because they attracted troublemakers.

You know I had some serious trouble makers but they're gone. I delete posts if someone uses foul language which isn't allowed on that site.  Most of my problems were with politics. I'm glad I don't have that now.


BTW, I have over 8000 posts now so that isn't too bad especially since I deleted all of the posts with the troublemakers who went..

Congratulations!
I stayed away from your site because I've got a potty mouth at times

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